Hello Eric, I found you while I was googling around, trying to find information about this particular spider. Here's why this spider queued my interest:
About 25 years ago I experienced an incident in which I was bitten by a spider. I caught it red-handed so to speak, and I had a very bad reaction to it. here is how it happened.
I used to hang my clothes on an outdoor clothesline to dry. One summer afternoon I hung out several pairs of socks, with the intension of bringing them in the following morning. The next morning I got up for work and went outside to retrieve my socks off of the clothesline. When I got back in the house I sat down in the kitchen and started to put on a fresh pair of socks. As I pulled the second sock on, I felt immediate intense pain, as if a big hornet was stinging the top part of my foot right between my ankles. I instantly pulled the sock back off, and the spider was still sort of stuck momentarily to my skin. I had fully expected to see a big hornet, it stung so sharply. I didn't know that a spider bite could feel just like a bee sting. It got infected, and took six months to heal. The wound became necrotic, about the size of a nickel.
I thought that might interest you. I see this type of spider in and around my house often.
I am very sorry you had such a horrible experience! Two things stand out to me: One, you left clothing outdoors overnight. Not a good idea ever. Second, the bite wound became infected. I point to these circumstances because often we do not take preventive measures to avoid bites and stings; and second, infection takes bites to a whole 'nother level. Often, it is the most extreme episodes, like yours, that are assumed to be the normal result of a bite or sting, when they are in fact abnormal. I do hope you are now completely recovered.